Learn to do with less attention than you would like at the moment.
People notice you in a more positive light when you are not actively trying to gain their attention. Stop caring...every time that urge comes to seek attention and you find yourself going out of your way to get noticed imagine a big STOP sign in front of you. Do not do things for which later you will think back on and feel ashamed at how lame you've been to stoop so low just to get that laugh ( that comes with a price in the form of PITY, cool people are not pitied).
When you try too hard you send out radiowaves at a frequency that all others can read even your cat- do not TRY in social situations to seem cool. Ever noticed how you can't read cool people, you usually don't know what they are thinking...well that is because they are not broadcasting LOOK AT ME signals to the rest of the human race.
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